Now then. I love big cock. I really really do. The idea has always aroused me and being able to experience it is something I never cease to be grateful for.
But. BUT. Not all women do. However much email spam, porn sites and the media will tell you that to be a RealMan™ you need at least 24 inches so you can fuck her so hard it hurts (pleasurable sex in an atmosphere of equality and care is obviously not as important as a trip to A&E, and what woman doesn’t find the idea of a permanently damaged cervix arousing?) and presumably strut around the place as a modern-day Priapus to proclaim your dominance over man (and woman) kind, I’ve never met any woman who is bothered. I like big cock, but only when it’s attached to a partner who realises that a lot of positions are out of bounds or have to be approached with care, and who doesn’t just pound away at you like a pneumatic drill. You can be a lot more spontaneous and experimentative with small and average sized cock, as you don’t need to concern yourself so much with the possibility of pain or discomfort.
What’s important about a lover isn’t his cock size, it’s how he communicates with you and whether he has the right attitude. I’ve talked to and read about many women who had good lovers, bad lovers, exciting lovers, boring lovers…and cock size was never ever mentioned. It just doesn’t matter. (Incidentally, with smaller penises g-spot stimulation is a breeze – it’s just the right length, and when receiving oral the whole cock can be taken into the mouth at once with no worry about gagging or jaw ache.) Straight men like boobs, and ultimately as long as they get to play with them they couldn’t care less about what size or shape they are. It’s the same with straight women. Straight women want cock. That’s it. And my advice to both genders is the same – if a partner is dissatisfied with your cock, your tits, your arse, your pussy…get rid. It’s not your problem, it’s theirs.
Good sex doesn’t come from cock size, boob size, body fat ratios, hair colour…good sex comes from the brain. It’s about communicating with your partner(s), being willing to change your style and try out new things, having an open mind and always wanting to raise your game. With this attitude, both partners will have satisfying, wonderful sexual encounters no matter what size or shape they or various parts of their anatomy might be.
